Really? Why would you say this to someone? I had a friend say this to me the other day. And a family member (not a close one). Add this to the growing list of moronic things that people say to you ;)
My husband and I have decided that we are going to enjoy this pregnancy. One day at a time. I never want to regret not being happy about this time in our lives. Yes, it's scary as hell. But, there is some really wonderful and joyful potential going on in there. What if I do make it full term and have this child for this world? Then I will look back on this pregnancy...and wonder how I could have enjoyed it more? I don't want those regrets. Take each and every day and enjoy it unless we are given reason to do otherwise!
Besides, like I said before, it's kind of impossible not to be hopeful and excited. Seriously impossible. Isn't this what we wish for as "infertiles"? Isn't this what we dream about? I will not take the time we are given with this pregnancy for granted. Whether it be 8 weeks or 9 months! This is what we hope and dream for...and I will be happy!!! Damn.it! Scared yes. Happy, definitely!!!
Love you little bean!!! We have our first OB appointment tomorrow. Maybe we'll get to see you again. If not, please behave and grow! We will do the best we can from out here!!!